In life we tend to live in the past and limit our future. We say what we used to be, instead of saying what we are or going to be. We talk about "what w_e used to have" Instead of "having what we say" A HADAMAN: a male who's always living in the past, never being able to keep anything, always saying I had a car, I had money, I had a girlfriend, I had a house, I had boat, or I used to be this, I used to be that. Don’t be a “had a man” be a “have a man"
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